Leftfoot I really don't think VMS has been anonymous about his posting anywhere on here. We all know the good doctor.
Must have missed it......and it's still ironic.... 
It's just the whole implication that 7000 families at Xfire are chicken**(&* made on anonymous forum that is soooooo internet age I guess.
(Ok, I'll stop using the ellipsis, too much like easternwashington......)
Lefty....no offense but people want there names kept out of it because unfortunately the people they are talking about cut kids because parents complain or make negative comments about the club. You need to get off your high horse and stop thinking you are the moral and ethical standard because you are blinded by your experience. You would be one of those head in the sand parents VMS is talking about.... the standard "my kids experience was great, therefor the world is awesome.
The world is becoming more and more that way, well guess what we are messed up as a country because of that attitude.
Another example of black and white thinking, I'm afraid. In the real world good and bad exist side by side. Are there good things about xfire that lead to families and kids having great soccer experiences? Certainly? Are there things that suck and need to change? Absolutely!
Sorry, but the whole kool-aid and head in the sand gig is just another way to dismiss someone that might have a bit more nuanced take on the whole subject and who actually has some personal experience there. Yes, having actually had a good experience would seem to be a plus in my book. Who knows, maybe everyone else is having an awful time, in which case everyone can leave xfire and go to whatever club vms and onthebench are shilling for.

I can't think of a club out there that doesn't have many great coaches and also provides a great soccer experience to most of its families. I also can't think of a club that doesn't have its issues.
Is it really being on that high a horse to find the irony in folks attacking other folks by name or entire groups of people as chicken(**(&( or whatever from the confines of an anonymous forum? Too lofty an accolade for me I'm afraid.
I have an idea -- OTB and VMS, why don't you pick an xfire game, maybe one that BJ is coaching. Then call all the xfire parents over -- please, don't pick a game where only the mom's are present -- and get right in their faces and tell them what you think. Yell and scream even. Shoot, cuss them a little and poke your finger at their chests. Really let'em have it. Squash, that would seem to be a step forward.
I'm not so sure that the problem with this country is that people have their head in the sand. It could be that too many folks mistake ranting on an anonymous forum for actually doing something.
Wait a minute, but I'm ranting on an anonymous forum.........
