These posts pop up all the time, the soccer equivalent of urban legends. Their origin is soccer parent subscribing to a soccer network and watching high level European games. Being a highly perceptive individual, he notices that the game that he is watching on TV is nothing like the game that his 11-year-old kid is playing. Obviously, he concludes, this is a SIGN THAT WE ARE DOING SOMETHING WRONG.
What that perceived wrongdoing is, of course, will vary from poster to poster. Theories go in and out of fashion like clothing styles and are rarely supported by a shred of factual evidence. Explanations run the gamut from too much focus on winning, too many games and not enough drills, not playing the "perfect" rules, untrained coaching, too much coaching, too much coaching influence from country x (only country y really knows how to play!), and, of course, the perennial favorite that soccer costs too much, among others. Of course, the last one (cost) is the most popular because we are consumers and like all consumers want our purchases to cost less – thus making it a theory that conveniently aligns with nearly everybody’s self-interest.
The reality, of course, is something else. The 11-year-old game is drastically different from the elite pro game because talent, skills, physical characteristics, and motivation for playing in the first place are dramatically different. The only comparisons that would make any sense at all would be to look at the games of other 11-year-olds. But guess what? They’re not on TV!