I have four daughters that play and/or coach some level of soccer. My oldest didn't make soccer her full time sport until she was u-13 (when she gave up softball and basketball). The high school years took their toll and after a long term back injury she decided it was time to "retire". She loves coaching though
My second player never played another sport and though she plays at the highest level now, has told me that she has no plans to tryout next year (she currently plays u13) She wants to learn to play some other sports and take "a year off". In hind sight, I wish that I had encouraged her to play rec. basketball, middle school volleyball, etc. and just balance it out for the short duration of these seasons.
My youngest player eats, sleeps and drinks soccer. She played on a dev. team last year and can't wait for her u11 practices to start back up (funny, her u13 sister used to be the same way??) I've told her that we need to learn from her sister experiences and find opportunities to be more than just a soccer player but to instead be an athlete. She seems to understand and after much grumbling she is going to play rec. basketball and take some tennis lessons this summer.
My daughter who plays special olympics sports seems to have the best of all worlds. She can bowl, swim and dribble to her hearts content and no one questions her committment.
There is something to be said for the simpler things in life.
These problems would exist regardless of when state cup is played or how bad the roads are between Yakima and Bellevue. If kids, coaches and parents can't find a way to juggle multiple sports (maybe not all at a select or premier level) then ultimate the athlete is the one that suffers.