How far would you go for your DD/DS~
Would you give up family vacations for practices/tourneys?
Err, I took my wife to a WC Qualifier on for our honeymoon. And our only other two "away from the kids" getaways were also soccer related. Over the past 20 years, though, I have taken the family on a total of two non-soccer related vacations. Both were camping trips.
Would you over ride your kid's decision to play on their team next season for another?
Yes. Did this once, convinced the kid twice to make the right decision in regard to team selection, and refused twice more to let a kid move to a team that was appropriate (one time cost, one time coach) Out of four kids, one ODP, another P-1, another District Select, last (FINAL!!!!!) a U-12 developmental player.
Would you drive over an hour away + to put them on a "better" team/coaching?
Like we had a choice!?!?! Of course I do. 87 miles each way to the practice field. That is for the second son. of course, in Eastern Washington, at times our options are more limited.
Would you allow your household to have soccer debt? Err, just because we attended 11 soccer tournaments in various states this last summer (sorry, was not able to attend every one and had to send kids with others a time or two!) and defered payng our property taxes until a future time, does not mean that we have "soccer debt". And I resent the implication that since our household spent seven times more on soccer footwear than on all other footware for the entire family, that we are spending too much on soccer. Further, the shed that we have bought to hold all the soccer equipment is a capital expense that is a real value addition to the property, and should not be viewed as a soccer expense. (except by our accountant and the IRS).
All the broken windows in the house from soccer balls and bodies flying are just normal wear and tear, not a soccer expense.
etc, etc, etc, etc...you add in your favorite phrase.
How much is too much? IF YOU HAVE TO ASK YOU CANNOT AFFORD TO BE PART OF CROSSFIRE Are we all CP's in some sort of way or do those CP's make all the other parents look bad?
IF WE AVOID LOOKING AT HOW MUCH WE EXPEND - TIME, MONEY, EMOTION, EFFORT, OPPORTUNITY COSTS, ETC. - on youth soccer, then we can still pretend that we are sane.[/b]